Q: So there’s this fine girl who lives in my estate. I’ve spoken to her a few times and she gave me her number. She’s 100% wifey material and when I told my friends they said I should get with her. But see, the problem here is that I’m kinda failing school right now. I mean it’s not astronomical or anything, it’s just a few 0s here and there. I know I should start focusing on school, especially because I have exams in a bit, but what if this is my one chance to get a gf and I miss it because I was being a nerd. I know you’re gonna say I should focus on school but try and see it from my perspective. I get NO girls. At ALL. This is a once in a lifetime opportunity. Anyway, what do I do?
I don’t mean to be rude, but as you stated you’re “kinda failing school right now”, so you should definitely be concentrating on fixing that. Girls come and go, I can guarantee there are more out there, and if she really is the one, the opportunity may come back around when you’re in the position for it. For now, focus on your academics and things that will matter in the long run.
In addition, you say you get no girls, and I’m sorry to say, but there may be a reason for that. Think about how you treat the people around you, and your values in life/your morals. If you feel like those aspects (and more) are alright, then it’s probably just not the right time for you to get a girlfriend. The opportunity may be here now, but you have to learn to prioritize things. Do you really want to risk repeating/failing for some girl?
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