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Q: So nowadays, my girl drought is becoming more serious. When I approach the pretty girls they say I’m cute and everything but I cant seem to seal the deal with getting them to mess with me. I’ve tried everything: getting a new haircut, losing more weight, playing the popular ppl sports, buying more expensive and fashionable clothes but still the pretty girls aren’t coming my way. What should I do?

Okay, so first I just wanna state that you shouldn’t change to make girls want you. Like yes I understand that you might want to change yourself to become more attractive to the girls you deem pretty but the girls should want you for you. Wouldn’t it be awful if everyday you had to pretend to be someone you’re not just to get your girlfriend to stay with you? I suggest being yourself.

Play the sports you want to play, buy the clothes you want to buy, etc. However, I do understand if you were changing yourself to be better because you want to be better for yourself and not for girls to like you. That way you’ll attract the right girl who will like you for you and not for the person you’re pretending to be. If some girls say you’re cute then I’m sure soon enough the right girl will come your way, but until then you should do the things you enjoy and be yourself.